So I am talking to a friend of mine on the subject of love, who happens to be of islamic background, and the conversation led to sex with women. He said that women are manipulative and the key to have sex with them, no matter whether in marriage or not, is to treat them in the bed in such a way that they become the slaves of their sexual desires. Women are very selfish when it comes to sex, he went on saying. Can't be all, said I. Trust me, every woman is selfish when it comes to sex. When you treat the woman in such a way that is evident that you want to sleep with her she will notice it and start taking advantage of it. In other words you make yourself her sexual slave and make her somewhat of a whore by pampering her, since you always have to submit to her demands, be it material or spiritual. And I said, what about love? When the two are truly in love. True love is unconditional isn't it? Or this can only be in a parent(s) to child(ren) only relashionship. Is there true love nowadays? When was the last time you saw a couple in love anywhere on the street or any place, love that ispires you in such a way that you get turned on to the point of animal instinct kicking in? Is love in New York or America as a whole a thing of the past? My friend could not answer these questions. Can you?