I tend to have a habit of liking to understand things and situations. Here is one of my situations that I'd love to share with you my nosy reader :) Living prosperously takes heart of a very unique human/animal kind of creature.
The negative and positive factors of living with your parents at the age of 28 and counting.
Let's cover the negatives first.
1. No privacy, meaning if you are a girl or a boy you cannot bring your love one into the house when parents are home and have the shattering uncontrolled wild lovemaking.
2. You have to accept the grimases of your parents when you bring a friend that they may not approve. Say if you are white and you bring a black friend, if your parents are racists then they will give you hard time in this situation.
3. You have to eat what your parents give you, and if you complain, you might as well buy your own food, why bother they run the funnyfarm?
4. Occational reninders from parents that you are already a grown up and it is time to become a slave just like everyone else out there trying to be independent. Such reminders are usually put in the waste basket of your mind since you tend to convince them that there's no such thing as independence in this world, ever.
Now let's look at the positive factors, and, oh boy, I have a feeling I am not in Kansas anymore.
1. No rent, this means you can do whatever you want with your life as well as people around you.
2. You can bring your love one when parents are at work, usually about 8 hours a day, and have the shattering uncontrolled lovemaking, of course assuming your love one also has similar or same situation, hey why would you love someone who has nothing in common with you?
3. Free food, free laundry (depending on your agreement with the parent who actually does the laundry in the house), in my case my mom does it, not that she washes with her own hands.
4. No bills for anything, and if you are loved by your parents, they even will cover your cell phone bill, for they love you so much they don't want anything harmful happen to you when you are not in their presence.
5.Your own room where you can put just about anything to do with it just about anything too.
6. Ability to say "fuck you" to anyone who employs your ass, at anytime of the day. In other words you are free to make your own hearfelt choices, nobody is in control of your life.
7. With all the time you have on hand you can pretty much be a saint, incorporate your own non-profit and even have government pay for all the expenses associated with this non-profit, you need at least 3 members of the board to do this. In America only though, learn more about it in your local coutry's government site.
8. Sky is the limit to what you can do
As you can see the positives are well over the negatives in this situation. Some envious dumb asses may argue that it is not the right way to live one's life, but who listens to envious dumb asses, after all, if they are envious of your situation, they depend on you and that envious outlook. Once I interviewed couple of Russian farts, one of which by the name Nathan, judged my situation, and told me that whatever artworks I have created under being "depended" on my parents are no good and there's no truth in it. I still laugh when I recall when he says that. Here is the clip (in Russian). So as you can see wisdom doesn't visit some people even at their approaching-the-wooden-shirt age.
Last word. Live while you can and if you can't because of some guilt, then die, noone will blame you for doing this except your old self.
Cheers
The negative and positive factors of living with your parents at the age of 28 and counting.
Let's cover the negatives first.
1. No privacy, meaning if you are a girl or a boy you cannot bring your love one into the house when parents are home and have the shattering uncontrolled wild lovemaking.
2. You have to accept the grimases of your parents when you bring a friend that they may not approve. Say if you are white and you bring a black friend, if your parents are racists then they will give you hard time in this situation.
3. You have to eat what your parents give you, and if you complain, you might as well buy your own food, why bother they run the funnyfarm?
4. Occational reninders from parents that you are already a grown up and it is time to become a slave just like everyone else out there trying to be independent. Such reminders are usually put in the waste basket of your mind since you tend to convince them that there's no such thing as independence in this world, ever.
Now let's look at the positive factors, and, oh boy, I have a feeling I am not in Kansas anymore.
1. No rent, this means you can do whatever you want with your life as well as people around you.
2. You can bring your love one when parents are at work, usually about 8 hours a day, and have the shattering uncontrolled lovemaking, of course assuming your love one also has similar or same situation, hey why would you love someone who has nothing in common with you?
3. Free food, free laundry (depending on your agreement with the parent who actually does the laundry in the house), in my case my mom does it, not that she washes with her own hands.
4. No bills for anything, and if you are loved by your parents, they even will cover your cell phone bill, for they love you so much they don't want anything harmful happen to you when you are not in their presence.
5.Your own room where you can put just about anything to do with it just about anything too.
6. Ability to say "fuck you" to anyone who employs your ass, at anytime of the day. In other words you are free to make your own hearfelt choices, nobody is in control of your life.
7. With all the time you have on hand you can pretty much be a saint, incorporate your own non-profit and even have government pay for all the expenses associated with this non-profit, you need at least 3 members of the board to do this. In America only though, learn more about it in your local coutry's government site.
8. Sky is the limit to what you can do
As you can see the positives are well over the negatives in this situation. Some envious dumb asses may argue that it is not the right way to live one's life, but who listens to envious dumb asses, after all, if they are envious of your situation, they depend on you and that envious outlook. Once I interviewed couple of Russian farts, one of which by the name Nathan, judged my situation, and told me that whatever artworks I have created under being "depended" on my parents are no good and there's no truth in it. I still laugh when I recall when he says that. Here is the clip (in Russian). So as you can see wisdom doesn't visit some people even at their approaching-the-wooden-shirt age.
Last word. Live while you can and if you can't because of some guilt, then die, noone will blame you for doing this except your old self.
Cheers


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